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Our adult children often need our help as they are maturing and preparing to become independent; however,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], too often we do things that do the opposite. Instead of helping them move toward independence,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we foster dependence. Here are five signs that you are enabling your adult child:
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You spend a lot of time thinking about how to "fix" the problems and yet your child doesn't show any interest in your ideas nor does there appear to be movement in a positive direction from your child on his/her own,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. This obsession to "fix" your adult child is keeping you from enjoying your own life as much as you would be without this "problem,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]."
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You are tolerating disrespectful behavior toward you,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. You are doing this because your child has "problems" and doesn't seem to understand that you deserve to be respected. Your requests to be treated differently fall on deaf ears and only result in more mistreatment,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
You are working harder than your child. If you are taking on a second job, working longer hours, adding on extra chores, or taking on additional tasks while your son or daughter has many hours of down time, social time, party time, or anything else that is non-productive,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], then you are enabling your adult child to be lazy while you are working to support him/her.
Are you wondering if you are enabling your adult child? These five signs will help you to determine whether or not you are helping or hurting,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. "Enabling" means that your action allows someone to continue to do something they otherwise couldn't do without it. It is also doing something for others that they should be doing for themselves.
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God intends that parents provide for their children while they are young; but he also intends for them to become adults who make wise choices. It is your job to parent in a way that does precisely that. If you are answered yes to these five signs you are enabling your adult children rather than setting boundaries, then your actions aren't helping; they are hurting.
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Let’s look at some facts about ADD and ADHD: people have long observed a cluster of symptoms that occur in a person of average or above average intelligence who seems unable to function in a competent, masterful way.
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Let’s look at some facts about ADD and ADHD: people have long observed a cluster of symptoms that occur in a person of average or above average intelligence who seems unable to function in a competent, masterful way.
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When you work from home, there are plenty of excuses to avoid getting down to business. One of the most frequent reasons clients give me for procrastinating about their work is that they just don’t like their home office.
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There are certainly different forms of exercise and fitness programs that people would like. It helps to match up a kind of physical activity to one's own personality. For those who like the outdoors,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], going on a hike or biking around would be a worthwhile fitness activity. For those who like it simple, home fitness training,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], strength training,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or just simply walking on a regular basis would do just as well.
In order to fight off boredom, it may be good to change your exercise routine every 4 to 6 weeks. Changes can mean trying out something new or just trying to change the intensity or duration of your exercises for variation. It is also important to remind yourself of your fitness goals and try to keep track of them. Rewarding yourself for a job well done can also be very effective to prevent becoming an unmotivated and bored fitness buff,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], if there is such a thing.
Exercise and training programs can take some motivation and effort in order to make into a habit. Building such a habit out of exercising can be pretty difficult especially if you see it as just some other task that needs to be done. Looking at a fitness program this way can easily make one give up trying just before one has really started. In the course of the situation, excuses can be made not to exercise anymore.
The Hating Exercise Excuse: One of the most common excuses people make by not exercising is that they simply hate doing it. Exercise is simply finding something you enjoy that will raise your heart rate and get the body stronger. Exercise can be any fitness regimen that can range from the usual calisthenics to more enjoyable sporting activities.
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The No Motivation Excuse: Doing exercises for some time now can really leave you feeling tired and stressed just as easily. Not having the right motivation can eventually make you feel bored with your workouts and keep doing them on a regular basis. And with boredom for company,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it can be really hard to keep going. And hence,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], no motivation to do the exercise program regularly becomes the excuse.
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Memory training involves more than techniques that help you to learn and retain what you learn. Things like exercise and brain foods are also part of the strategy that will increase your brainpower, and keep you sharp throughout your lifetime.
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Even the youngest girls in relationships find themselves telling their boyfriends what to do, in the name of being helpful or honest. They suffer the same consequences. It's a burden which leads to stress.
Sometimes I think that we women have a genetic pre-disposition to be unkind, albeit we think it's in a nice way, and we either ask for our partner to change, or tell him or her that we are not pleased with their behavior or their look, or the way that they talk, or smile,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or their hygiene, or the way that they walk or talk, or the way that they say a particular thing. Or,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we SPEAK THE TRUTH. So we tell them that we don't like their mother or sister or child,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or that we don't like their behavior, but we're being honest. In a word, we CRITICIZE.
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She asked me what she should do. She asked me if I ever did that. I admitted that it's been one of my greatest challenges as a woman and that sometimes I just imagine a giant band aid covering my mouth so that I would just stop being mothering which is just a synonym for being controlling and critical, when you're dealing with another adult.
If I can tell you one thing that will improve your relationship with your partner or spouse,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], whether you are gay or straight, regardless of your age and how long you've been together, it is this: DON'T CRITICIZE.
Interestingly, telling the truth is one of the most misunderstood processes in life. We've been told that one's integrity is tied up in being honest and truthful. In fact,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], honesty is always the best policy, EXCEPT when it is your way of getting your way or being manipulative, or letting off steam, or wanting your partner to see things from your point of view. This is not about honesty or truth. It's strictly about CRITICIZING. And what does it do for your relationship? It creates toxcisity and strain, and leads to conflict and dire unhappy consequences.
The next day she brought me a giant 30" band aid that still hangs in my office as a reminder. I love that metaphor. Just keep your damned mouth shut, girl!
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I've seen amazing things change once a woman ceases being critical, controlling, mothering,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], manipulative,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and unnecessarily honest with her partner. It can truly create miracles.
I once knew a girl named Debbie who asked me why she was always acting like her boyfriend's mother and trying to improve him and help him so much of the time. She said it always lead to arguements and fights, but it almost seemed as if she couldn't help herself. Once we spoke about it further,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], she realized that all the women she knew did the same thing with their men. She thought her father was hen-pecked. She knew her grandfather hated her grandmother for being pushy and controlling. Debbie did not want to end up like them.
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Think about your wonderful attributes and not your faults. Take an inventory of your values, skills, talents, interests and “heart”. This is the beauty you present to the world. Leave all your negative thoughts behind at home.
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You have another reason for wanting to do this. Talk to your health care provider about the type of help that may be best for you. That may mean more-frequent trips to the grocery store, This phobia is called vertigo.
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Professor Ahn published a treatise on dog meat eating in Korea in a book titled Koreans and Dog Meat. On the Internet, he runs a related website at in Korean, English, Japanese and French.
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"Tolerance implies no lack of commitment to one's own beliefs. Rather it condemns the opression or persecution of others."
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History tells us that Patrick Chamusso, was the 'good guy', who finds himself so backed into a corner, that he finds no other way of expressing and achieving his political aspirations, other than through using force. And that is the mindset we 'ordinary people'and especially world leaders are truly going to have to understand in order to "win this current 'war against terror'". And we are certainly not going to do it through force and invasions, by eliminating the 'perpertrators of the state-sanctioned violence'and his family.
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His (Mandela's) ability to rise above his conditions,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], to stay positive and remain focussed. His dignity,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], humility and character. He is a model for everyone, especially his total lack of bitterness towards his former enemies. "There is no time to be bitter - there is work to be done."
"Catch a Fire" is based on the story of Patrick Chamusso, the personal journey and transformation of an "ordinary" man: from a compliant oil refinery worker and family man, then after being arrested, tortured and deported to his birth country of Mozambique became a radicalised African National Congress guerrilla fighter code-named "Hotstuff" - a man fighting for the liberation of his people, and his country.
A tribute to the symbolic presence of dignity and strength. "Madiba's'strength of will and character. ("He took Christianity to the market-place.") Mandela embraced his enemies with love in a "Christ-like selflessness", epitomising a "Divine Grace" in the uman condition. He truly BELIEVED in his mission, never wavering in his convictions. One man's commitment to a noble cause - what one man can do preaching reconciliation. "My mission is embracing the wounds of my country." He gives pride to all black people. What men can do with a noble mission.
"If I don't forgive my enemies, I deny my right to have power over them."
- Martin Luther King or Robert Kennedy??
(written by Shawn Slovo and her producer sister, Robyn)
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But then,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Patrick and his beloved wife, Conney have always tried to instill in others the importance of serving others through Christian love. They say that their current long battle against HIV is like our people's long and hard struggle against apartheid.
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To end off, here are a few thoughts on forgiveness...
"Forgiveness is not an occasional act - it is an attitude of mind."
- Martin Luther King
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It's also most importantly, a story of redemption: of a man trying to regain his humanity...and one eventually does!
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"Few (of us) will have the greatness to bend history itself, but each of us can work to change a small portion of events. It is from numberless diverse acts of courage and belief that human history is shaped. Each time a man (or woman) stands up for an ideal, or acts to improve the lot of others, or strikes out against injustice, (she or) he sends forth a tiny ripple of hope, and crossing each other from a million different centers of energy and daring those ripples build a current which can sweep down the mightiest walls of oppression and resistance."
— the powerful and greatly inspiring words of Robert F. Kennedy (with my little insertions in brackets)
"Violence breeds violence, repression brings retaliation, and only a cleansing of our whole society can remove this sickness from our soul." So eulogised Robert Kennedy after the assassination of Martin Luther King Jr in April 1968.
Article Title: A 'Review' of the New Film: "CATCH A FIRE" and Sharing a few Thoughts on Forgiveness
"There are those who look at things the way they are,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and ask 'why'? I dream of things that never were, and ask 'why not'?"
Like the writers, producers and directors of "Catch the Fire", I too love to write and share stories that matter a lot to me,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in terms of my deepest values ("the artistic temprament"??). True stories from people's lives in history, that are worth sharing with others, as they have great meaning regarding the universal human condition. So I write about ordinary people in exceptional circumstances and times, that hopefully uplift and impact others through certain people's great generosity of spirit inherent in the human condition to overcome great obstacles or adversity in their lives! My stories are about the indominatable and unquenchable strength of the human spirit... and "Catch a Fire" is a story that I would have loved to have written ... but now that it's been done by Shawn and Robyn Slovo far more personally, bigger and better than I could ever have done. I found the story of the film so moving, compelling and inspiring, just "impulsively" wanted to share with you and encourage you to see this uplifting and inspiring movie.
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"The noblest revenge is to forgive."
- Thomas Fuller, English author (1608-1661)
Eventually Patrick was arrested again and convicted as a terrorist; then served his long and harsh sentence on Robben Island in the chilly waters off Cape Town, until his release in 1991. Now Chamusso, aged 57,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], runs an orphanage with his wife, Connie, where they tend to Aids orphans in the dusty hills at White River near Kruger National Park. From their modest home the close couple care for 14 children. Already they have found foster homes for a further 90 under-privileged (and often malnourished) youngsters in the village, who visit their house daily for food, bible classes and the shiny bicycles donated by the film's production company...all done with a great generosity of spirit.
I think it's vitally important to understand the mind of a person. Another important message in the story is how good people can often do bad things and the reader gets inside the soul of a man, who wanted to do good and yet preserve the status quo of the ruling regime - to protect the institutions and history of the country. The plots interweave, the two men living on different sides of the fence - both who love their families and their country equally; it's just that they have a completely different view of their country and visions for its future. The story not only shines a light on South Africa's past, but tells us something about the present and how one man's freedom fighter can be another's terrorist. (It just depends upon ones perspective). So, by only looking to history, we always find something, a ray of hope to illuminate the present and the future.
I don't think Chamusso is a hero for taking up arms. I think he's a hero for laying them down. Their story has a message of forgiveness and hope in the future - one that parallels the miracle of South Africa today. Now if only other countries could offer the kind of leadership South Africa produced at that precarious time in its blood-soaked history...and learn the lessons from the past, then the whole of Africa and even the entire world would be a far better and more peaceful place for all of us.
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"Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]; only love can do that.
- Martin Luther King, Jr (1929-1968, American Leader and Nobel Prize Winner,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], 1964)
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The local police initially identified, the explosion is caused by the hot pot shop liquefied gas leak, the cause is in the further investigation, the authorities have launched an on-site cleanup.
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You have another reason for wanting to do this. Talk to your health care provider about the type of help that may be best for you. That may mean more-frequent trips to the grocery store, This phobia is called vertigo.
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I was desperate to fulfill my dreams for a happy family and I also did not want to be alone, so I devoted all my attention and energy to the problem and not the solution. I devoted all my attention on keeping peace rather than voicing myself. I wouldn't stop for a minute. I was like the cartoon character, the Tasmanian devil, keeping myself so crazily busy doing things that my emotions would run amuck and I wouldn't have to feel what was really going on inside.
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I recently chose to go back to Al-Anon and stop running from feeling my feelings,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. And I recently chose to admit that my life has been affected by someone else's drinking. I also admit that I am now grieving,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. And this is my road to recovery,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Whether or not alcohol is in your family or somewhere in your life, how busy do you keep yourself? Is it so busy that you have no time to feel? I really believe that many of us keep 'Tas' busy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], which becomes an adrenaline addiction,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], so that we can continue not to feel and address what is really going on within ourselves. By repeating this negative habit we stop the healing. When we don't recognize what we are feeling, we can't change. It is not ever really about asking our situation to change,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but instead for the power to change how we respond to the situation of the alcoholism or whatever matter it may be.
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Ever hear of Oxytocin? No, not the painkiller, oxycontin, but the hormone that is released in childbirth and assists in the bonding experience between mother and child.
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Taipei on 30 April Li Qingan skin thicker than the rhinoceros. the recent media articles or editorials asked Li Qing'an don't bend,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], then will start the fourth wave of primary operation.
Taoyuan County as the senior party next week, purchasing local products on vulnerable households,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], will lead consumption down to Kaohsiung. dragon and lion dance to welcome the mainland visitors.Taiwan Songshan Airport Yingbin "home" to the Lu water (Photos) 2008-07-04 09:06:41 Xiamen airlines to Taiwan Songshan Airport charter 20 minutes early Wu Nairen has not officially released as chairman of darmstadtium shock before the company, he did in "the National Security Council Secretary General" Ren Chen Shuibian Chen Shuibian within recommended,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], United Evening News reports,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], for the benefit of the people", it is understood.
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The law firm that represented the plaintiff rebutted the defendant's version of the accident using the support of an accident reconstruction expert. By showing that the truck did in fact run over the victim twice the law firm established truck driver could not have been paying attention to traffic on his right as he made the turn. Consequently,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the law firm reported that they were able to achieve a settlement in the amount of $400,000 for the plaintiff.
The driver maintained that he was not to blame for the accident. In what is an all too common defense position the defendant blamed the plaintiff for the accident. The truck driver maintained that he signaled before taking the turn. The defendant also maintained that the bicyclist entered the intersection without stopping for the stop sign, and further maintianed that he did not run over the plaintiff twice. The victim on the other hand,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], stated that the driver never used his turn signal and that the driver could not have been paying attention while making the turn.
It is not rare for someone hurt in a motor vehicle accident to be faced with a defendant who denies liability. Frequently,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], these drivers in fact place responsibility with the plaintiff for the accident. Because a large number of vehicle accidents do not have any witnesses the outcome of such lawsuits could come down to the credibility of the victim as opposed to the credibility of the defendant. Not surprisingly when this goes on the adjuster for the insurance company insuring the defendant will frequently take the side of the defendant.
Consider the published case in which a truck struck a male messenger on a bicycle as the truck was turning right,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. The truck cut off the bicyclist,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. The front of the truck hit the bicyclist throwing him off the bicycle. The truck's front tire and rear tire both ran over the victim. The bicyclist sustained fractures to his pelvis and severe internal injuries,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. He was twenty two years old when the accident took place,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
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Lawyers seasoned in dealing with such cases,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], particularly in those that deal with significant injuries to the victim, understand that they really do carry the burden of demonstrating that the driver was responsible. Depending on a credibility battle is unlikely to result in a settlement and wagers on the outcome at trial. Despite the fact that it is not always economically feasible to work up a claim using experts,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in cases where the damages are enough and there is sufficient insurance coverage or there are resources that could be used for a recovery,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it may be proper to do so.
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In the past few months, I’ve researched, listened to, and observed the actions of people I see as very productive. Their perspectives and approaches are different but what they share is a discipline to adhere to the strategy that works for them.
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